we can't say, "I DO" with out you!
Lisa & James
07.22.23
we kindly ask for your response by july 1st.
xo L + J
Now & forever
our Love Story
In 2014, James & Lisa attended school in Santa Barbara, CA. James met Lisa a couple of times in passing through parties, mutual friends & school while Lisa will say the first time she met James was a few weeks before she was leaving Santa Barbara to move back to Orange County. We both did not plan on going out on this particular night, but we are so grateful we did! We officially got introduced & the rest is history. We both spent alternating weekends visiting each other where we spent most of our time hanging out by the beach, laughing hysterically at one another & planning our next move. We didn't even visit San Diego together before deciding to move in with each other. Next thing we know, we're living in a beach bungalow by the water, bike riding to our favorite Mexican restaurant for California burritos & making sure our Daisy girl gets lots of belly rubs. Life couldn't be better! Currently, we are in Huntington Beach, still by the water & still giving lots of belly rubs to our Daisy girl. Although we've had an amazing time growing up in our twenties together, we would have to say this is our favorite chapter yet... going into this next phase of our lives becoming husband & wife.
The Proposal
This was one for the books! In August 2022, we visited James' family in Northern California where the four of us, Lisa, James, Colleen & Ron ventured to Monterey for a "golf trip". We enjoyed exploring, eating delicious meals & staying at the cutest B&B overlooking Lover's Point. This is where the proposal happened! It was cold, chilly & grey but none of that mattered, it was absolutely perfect. Monterey will always hold a special place in our hearts for this reason.
You and I = Us
our wedding
Details
The Theme: Tropical Old Hollywood
Dinner: Family style! There will be options of Beef, Chicken & a special dish for those who request a vegetarian option through your RSVP linked above.
Attire: Semi formal, please! We are excited to see you all dress up but please do not be intimidated by the theme, we want you to look nice & feel comfortable.
Weather: July is typically upper 70s to low 80s. The venue provides shaded areas to stay cool. As night approaches, it can get a bit chilly, please bring any necessary jackets as we will be dining outside.
Hotel/Travel: Lisa, James & family will be staying at The Seabird Resort. We want to give our guests the options to choose their own overnight experience wether that is a hotel or Airbnb. Hotel options near Downtown Oceanside include: The Brick hotel, The Hotel Oceanside, Best Western, among many others. If you are flying in, there is John Wayne Airport in Orange County or San Diego International Airport.
Botanica: 190 Wilshire Rd, Oceanside 92057
The Seabird Resort: 101 Mission Ave, Oceanside, CA 92054
The Rooftop Bar: 201 N. Myers St., Oceanside, California, United States, 92054
Transportation: There is no transportation to Botanica, we recommend Uber, Lyft, & carpooling. There is a large parking lot if you choose to drive. If cars are left, they must be picked up in the morning by 11AM. There will be a small shuttle provided for those who wish to join for a night cap at The Rooftop Bar next to The Sea Bird Resort-- 201 N Myers St, Oceanside, CA 92054. Otherwise, we appreciate you taking Uber, Lyft or carpooling.
Open Bar: It is an open bar so please bring cash for tips.
till death do us part
L + J | 7.22.23
Timeline of events
Here's what to expect during our wedding! We can't wait!
4:00 Pm
Guests Arrive
4:30 PM
Ceremony begins
6:15 PM
Dinner is served!
6:00 PM
Our First Dance as Husband & Wife
7:00 PM
Toasts, cheers!
8:00 PM
Dance floor time!
8:45 PM
Bouquet & Garter toss
9:30 PM
Last call / bar closes
9:30 PM
Grand Exit!... Let's meet for a night cap at The Rooftop Bar.
Our Registry
Your presence at our wedding is the only present we require.
We truly do not need anything. Although, we have created a small registry for those who would like to contribute to our Honeymoon fund. We appreciate any amount you decide to gift us.
FAQS
We can't wait!
ARE KIDS INVITED?
We love your children! On this particular night, we ask that you kindly leave them home. However, due to travel & other circumstances, there will be some children attending with the permission of the bride & groom.
CAN I BRING A DATE?
If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes! If not, we kindly prefer if it was just you.
IS THERE TRANSPORTATION TO AND FROM THE HOTELS TO THE CEREMONY?
There is not transportation to the venue. There will be a small shuttle leaving the venue to The Rooftop Bar for a night cap.
Is there an after party?
As of now, we will be stopping by The Rooftop Bar, next to L + J's hotel in Downtown Oceanside for drinks & late night snacks.